Sunday, 8 September 2013

Fourth Official Date - 27 August 2013


        Last post we are saying that i am having a date at bugis ,which is one of the successful date that i ever been though. As i enjoy it alot and i bet that she's enjoying the date as well. so normally we will communicate through social media devices such as "Sms,Whatsapp ,Facebook , etc" even though we might be dam busy at sometime in life .

      So During 27 August 2013 morning while i was eating breakfast before i attend my work. So while chatting with her in the morning before her lesson starts. I asked her whether she's free tonight for dinner , and surprisingly she said "YES". When  i saw her reply , my day just brighten it up. So i went ahead tell my boss i will leave 15min earlier but i will finish my work to catch the train.

    Our meeting point is fix at city hall Mrt Station ,at 6pm . But as usual i estimated that she would be late at least 30min so 6.30pm is the meeting point. Eventually i am right , as  she did reached at 6.30pm . So i went to find her around the mall as she give me the shop name , but after 5min of finding i saw a girl looks like her but she's with a friend. To confirm i walk towards her , and i was shocked that she brought a friend with her name "Karen". So i take a deep breathe and went ahead to say "hey hello! sup who might you be?" . Hence she took the initiative to introduce her friend to me. So we went around to have some shopping for formal shoes, since her friend need it for some event.

   But one hour later , whereby her friend left. which left us alone so we head out to hunt for some food as we are simply too hungry. Somehow we settle down with burger king and decided to head to have some nice night view at esplanade . As usual she like to eat her wedges with chicken burger as for me my fries and my beef burger. "NOM NOM NOM" Simply yet nice dinner as long i am eating with her.

   As soon as we finished our meal we head to the esplanade rooftop of catch the view of cityhall. sure it's awesome with all the lighting of the building with the cooling weather. So we grab a sit and enjoy the night view for an hour before we start heading home as it's quite late during that moment. Exchanging thoughts and held a heart to heart talk with her. Which simply awesome , as i believe that communication is one of the crucial factor that kept us going.

   Soon an hour pass by and normally we both felt that the time when we are together with each other .The clock seems to be running at the tip top speed as compared to our time when we are separated. There's a saying "Good times passes faster than usual" which i totally agree. short but what a wonderful date once again which make me fall for her more :) 




   


Saturday, 7 September 2013

Third Official Date - 24 August 2013

Our third date is actually quite short  but at the same time it still one of the most precious memory between us. During that day , she was involved with her cca(co-curriculum activities) . Hence she was required to go back to the school in the morning period. so we decided that we will meet at noon for lunch and follow up by sending her back home for her revision.

So it's about 1200HR when i reach her location and waited for her. Even though i waited for awhile for her but it's totally worth it. So we decided to go Bugis for our lunch, and she also told me that we can have our dinner as well . While she said that i was stunned for a moment , but i was joyous within my mind"yes yes, "extra time with her!"".

When we reached Bugis Plus , our stomach start to growl . As we didn't have our normal breakfast that's why we started our "FOOD HUNT". i said food hunt is because my girlfriend really like to "Eat" despite the fact she's isn't fat. However due to our hunger we settle our lunch with "BURGER KING". After we ordered and the food is being serve, we will start to tease each other "HEY HEY looks at your WEDGES , it's FATS". Great moment we have there , follow up by shopping around the bugis market. The market is so crowded to a extent that i don't wanna lose her . hence i didn't let off my hand while holding onto her hand. As we toured around within the market , although there's alot interesting items being sold there. However , we didn't purchase any item . We are more likely enjoying the fun while we are teasing each other as we walk and view the shops . Simple but yet enjoyable.

After an hour or something , the heat is being build up . Hence we decided to go some shopping mall to enjoy their air-con. So we proceed to Bugis Plus to enjoy the "Air - con" , as soon as we take our foot in the mall we go "WOOOOOT" as it's really killing the heat.While enjoying our air-con , we went around the mall for some window shopping and eventually we end up in watching a movie called "That Girl In Pinafore". The movie is actually good , Good storyline , Kinda sad ending but overall is a heartwarming movie for a young couple like us . We really enjoy the OST within the movie , it's really bringing out the feel of the romantic atmosphere and able to reflash back to the past of us .

What comes after a good show will be "DINNER", hence we walk around bugis area to spot for some nice food. while walking through the mall we found a chinese restaurant which seems to be pretty decent.Hence we decided to dine at this restaurant and we was being lead to our tables. As we look through the menu , i and her pick a few things each . But during the ordering i add a few more items in it , and she went "WHAT!!!!!!"

As soon as the dinner is being served , we went "NOM NOM NOM" due to the hunger that's been hunting on us .But we did take a snapshot of our yummylicious food before went "NOM NOM ". should say that the restaurant food is pretty decent and the service is good as well. so thumbs up for that restaurant.

After the dinner as we are so full , so we took a stroll around the area to aid digestion. so we went from shop to shop to have some shopping . So we stop by at a shop called "Couple Lab" whereby they sell couple rings. So having some little conversation we agreed that we should get one ring during our first anniversary. so i went "Yay"  , i'm a happy man! hahahaha! soon after that i sent her home.

For conclusion , this is one of our memorable date. Even though it's just a half day date for us , but the every second we spent with each other will be crave within our heart,body,mind & soul. Never gonna forget each moment we spent with each other.





Tuesday, 3 September 2013

Trip Home After Work - 19th August 2013 to 23th August 2013

Yeap if you all are keeping up with my post , this is our beginning of our whole new journey. To me, Even small things does matters. This may seems silly within some people eyes , but to me this are the precious moment i spent with her.

After the misunderstanding incident , our trust between each other have strength. Our Love for each other had grew as day goes by. When ever i got the chance to sent her home , i will grab the chance. While on our way back , we will have some conversation between us . Whenever we speaks , somehow it will allow us to laugh . Maybe this is what relationship / Love is?

Between us we felt no stress between us , we are allow to be what you are originally and not forcing each other to change into another person. We will have joke,have fun , have activities , have heart to heart talk , etc together. To me as long as she's with me , that's  more than enough for me.

Sometime as the time is rather late , she will somehow tell me that i should go home straight rather than sending her home. But i still insisted that i want to walk home with her , as sometimes she have some other matter like CCA(Co-Curriculum activities to take care of) so i will just wait for her nearby her office.

There's a time she brought along alot goodies like"Sweet,Choco,Laptop bag,shirt,bottle,voucher ,etc" just for me which is so sweet of her. Even though it's free stuff she took from office , but she still put in the effort to bring it for me . Whenever i receive gift from her , i will just use it. As this is the best way to thanks her .

In conclusion for this topic, i hope that be it the present nor the future for us will be bright. And our stories and adventure will be written on this blog by me to keep track of our memories.

I LOVE YOU , 我爱你 , あなたのこと愛している!





Misunderstanding - 18th August 2013

On the 18th August 2013 , which i self-declared that it's the worst day of my life. Maybe it's my love towards her is too serious , hence making me feel that way.

So this is how the story goes ,during that day while we are chatting away. All because of my big fat mouth"Saying that i will bring her to meet my pals some-days" even knowing that she had some problem from her past related to this. So she told me this in the night while i was having my routine jogging schedule at the night that"Let me think about it , i'm confuse". During that moment my heart and emotion went dead , as if a dead man walking ". But she promise that she will give me the reply as soon as possible.So i prayed hard that things will went well  to a extend that i barely gotten any sleep that night.

Next day 19th August 2013 , i have no choice to wake up and prepare for my work . So i managed to reached my workplace an hour earlier so i decided to visit "Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf" for some coffee. As i'm so tired, while silly looking/staring at my mobile phone and wish that the message from her will come.

As the clock strike 0900HR , my working hour has started . But i just can't concentrate on my work , as i'm so worried about how things gonna end up. Having this thought "From what happen between us on 17th August 2013 Can't be fake! " So trusted on my feeling and believe that this will work out just fine.On the 1100HR , my phone vibrated and show "Poh Gek has sent you a message".

Hence ,i take a deep breathe went in to see the conversation/Message "Good Morning" and we follow up with a little chat between us and then she continued with "I have already make up my mind , what about you?" as she Question me i was thinking "What thing that i need to make up my mind" So i went Clarify with her to be safe that what she think is what i think as well. Yeap, it was the same as what i understood it "Am i ready to give you a answer about us?" that's what she really mean.

After a few seconds of thought , i gave my reply"From the start , i didn't once regretted knowing you. And not to mention that i want you to be with me so much , that i can give you nearly everything. As long as you are happy , i will be happy as well. so i will respect your decision".

As soon as she saw that message , she gave me a reply saying "I will give me my best to this relationship since it's fate that brought us together". When i heard this from her i was like *Bang and Flip table and Shout "YES YES YES YES!"* it may look silly but that's what i done in company. As the conversation went she asked me whether i'm free after my work , so we are allow to go home together or something. Without a second thought i answered her "YES i will go find you after my work". Hence it give us a happy ending and this is where our future starts



Sunday, 1 September 2013

Official Second Date Commence - 17th August 2013

If you had been reading my post within this blog dedicated for you , this post i will be saying on my memories that lies on our second date 17th August 2013.

i Still remember during that day , our timing is being push from 9am to 9.30am to 10am  to eventually 11am . I was so excited on that day to a extend i can nearly sleep on the previous night. If you guys have been this excited as me , i believe that you all will understand why i couldn't sleep due to that excitement.

i still remember i reached vivo city located @habourfront on 1000hr. since i'm early i went to grab some lunch on my own as you mention to me that you will be having lunch at your house since it's being prepared. After that since i had plenty of time left , so i had a little read up on my books that being situated within my ipad just to kill some time.

At 1055hr , my phone rang and you went asking me "where am i , as i'm located at the entrance of harbourfront MRT station". so i head forward to the given location as soon as possible as i can't wait to see you in person. As i walk through the crowd , i was searching for a girl that's "156cm in person With long hair and a Hamster face look :3 just like this."Fortunately enough , i am able to locate her due to her orange ear piece she's wearing . No to mention more i told her my location for our date, and she said it's expected. Actually i wanted to take the LRT to sentosa but she replied it's too expensive hence we went on foot to our location.

But i didn't regret at all , as the trip to sentosa was quite a enjoyable one . We jokes , laugh , have fun while we make our way through to our location. As soon as we reach our location i told her that i want to bring her into Singapore Universal Studio . But out of my expectation , as soon as she heard it . She hold my hand and said "Hey it's too expensive for you , don't go in alright ? We will go somewhere to stroll around where it's free!" As soon as i heard this sentence , i didn't get angry and i fall for her even more. To know that she have such a nice and good character , without giving a second thought  i agreed to her and we went somewhere else.

At this moment i felt so blessed, as this is the day where she started to hold my hand and i was given a chance to hold hers as well.i know it's kinda dumb , but this is the first time i love someone this much that i couldn't help it. Moving on as we walk down , we reach the SEA Aquarium . So i went ahead and ask her "wanna visit the Aquarium , But she said the same stuff again." So in the end we just walk around the island and have some silly talks and joke around at the same time. it's simple but fun to me.

Hence 1 hour later , we both agree to went back to the Shopping centre where we came from for some Air con to chill us down. We act like a normal couple would do , hold hands and went visiting anyway interesting store that interest us . As we walk pass the cinema , i brought her into the cinema and ask her whether she want to have a movie ? during that time one of the most interesting Movie is the "RIPD" , so without a second thought we purchased that tickets. But before that we will have like 3 hours free and easy time.

Throughout that 3 hours , we went shopping around in the malls looking for clothes and stuff. But in the end we went out to the outdoor rooftop to have some fresh air and heart to heart talk. i true enjoy the heart to heart talk moment . As it's our first time having such a conducive talk at the side of the sea enjoying the sea breeze.Through the heart to heart talk , i get to know what's she concern of and about her past and stuff. Using this chance to get to comfort her and give her motivation and confident in things that she mention.

As soon as we finish the talk , we went directly to the cinema to catch our movie . Throughout the movie i can feel her tension as she's scared of dark movies. So during some of the scenes i tempt to give her the assurance by hugging her abit tighter around her shoulder till she's able to relax.

Even though the movie lasted for 2 hours, but i felt it's just a 5min movie . Times together with her always fly faster than i can imagine. So we went to some japanese restaurant to grab some dinner by the sea side. Lucky enough , while we are having our dinner. there's some firework from Universal Studio Singapore. Kinda make the atmosphere more romantic .

After having our dinner , we went to the DAISO to have some shopping for DIY stuff. while walking to the shop where we wanted to go , she told me this"You are the first official Boyfriend i have , so don't leave me alright"As soon as she mention that , i felt that whatever i prepared for her is totally worth it.

I Love You Poh Gek , 我爱你Poh Gek , 愛しているPoh Gek



Planning for the second date - 15th August 2013

From the previous post if you are following me , you should know that i already went out with her once .
which is one of the most enjoyable moment in my life. As for today post , i will be writing on the second date with her and the preparation process.

Even though i had a few ex-girlfriend of mine , but this is the first time i fall for someone so deep. To a extend that i  am willing to do anything as long as she's happy.Actually speaking form the truth , from the last date she told me that that will be the last time that i will be meeting her until i achieve what i promise her"which is a secret."However  , through the week where i  daily speaks to her and chat with her via message. On the thursday which is 15th August 2013 , she promise that she will go out with me once more.

Upon hearing that annoucement/reply from her , i jump with joy within my company and shouted "Yes Yes!". Loud and crazy to a extend that my colleague went questioning me "hey brother are you alright?"
it's kinda of embarrassing at that moment, but at the same time  i felt so glad that i was given the second chance to go out with her.

Soon after the announcement , i was asked to planned our date for the sat 17th August 2013. Sadly this is the first time i doing this , so i went so clueless on what to do next.
As i'm a Computer person due to my job/studies/interest hence i go source out on the google "Singapore Dating Location/Ideals". Reading to this point you guys might be bursting into laughter ,
but true enough i did that. Adding on , as i searches the google for the ideals , lots of them pop out.

As i read those ideals , some interesting ideal pop out from my mind. After considering that fact of "Money,Location,Atmosphere,Time Allow,Her Character" Most of the ideals given is being rejected.
Fortunately, i came up with a several plans after having to refer to the ideals pop out from the google. Basically i come up with a 4 plans for saturday. But next Problem surface as soon as i thought of them.
Which plan of mine is the best to fit the occasion on the Saturday.

Judging from the fact that i have no clue of what girls are thinking. i went to seek help from my friend who is a girl"Kimmy", so i went like"hey kim , i have a few ideal for my date this week end and it's real important so can i seek your help
to choose for me which os the plan is the best for this occasion?"After spending like an hour with her , i made some amendment to one of my date and come up with this ideal.

Step 1 : Meet at Habourfront
Step 2 : Bring her to Sentosa
step 3 : Bring her to Universal studio Singapore
step 4 : Have Awesome dinner experience at vivo City
Step 5 : Follow by some awesome movie

The actual date will be written in my next post , so keep up with it :)




Thursday, 29 August 2013

Our First Date - 10th August2013

Reading on from the last post i mentioned that this is where all our story started.  On  the 10th Oct 2013 , i was so excited that i can nearly sleep. In the end we selected Botanic Garden @ Singapore , as our first date. It's was a interesting day and fun day to begin with.

Oh well , although we meet at 9.30am but in the end as usual you ended up at 10am . Haha but it's fine , when i first look at you , it's blow my up my brain as you are better person than i expected. You are so hyper , cheerful , fun to be with , kind , etc. In short such an awesome girl i ever met in my life.

So we started off our journey at 10.10am , i still remember i told you this"hey you are taller than what i predicted(156cm)".  So we planned to go to the orchid garden within the botanic garden , hence this is my first time ehre so i asked her to lead the way. Somehow the more she lead we more lost we are , hence i just say this"My time to lead right now ". Hence we reach our destination and move on to our next destination.

So we went to took a bus to the dhoby guat @ Singapore , and have our lunch right there. And you picked Yoshinoya before i sent you off to the funeral that you going to attend later. Before i sent you off we got a little walk around the Plaza Sing , this is where i fall for you and decided to go all out. Soon you went to attend the funeral and hence i asked you to drop me a message if you are done  as i will be hanging around within this area till you done.

As you was attending the funeral of your friends parent , i went to watched a movie and sat down to look through our chat from the first day till the 10th Oct 2013. This is where i remind myself as i read through , as you mention that you might not be the correct person and etc. stuff. So i decided to tell you while i'm facing you that i didn't regret meeting you and things and you are far better than i expected so have confident within yourself.

Approximately around 4pm , you  sent me this message"hey i have to stay abit later than usual." But i still decided to wait for you . So as it hit 7pm , this is where you finally finished your stuff and we going to have dinner. Before the dinner , i remembered saying that you wanted a Winnie hence i go find one for you while you are away .Wanted to gave you a surprise sine it's like the first time we are meeting .

After that we Proceed to fruit paradise for dinner , and eventually we shared the huge ass plate of food and have a simple dessert afterwards. The dessert was simply yummy during that time , maybe it's my mental problem as i'm with you or something? As we proceed to payment , you eventually forced the money into my pocket as i wanted to pay for you . But you went ahead and mention "If you don't accept my money , i won't give you another chance to goes out with me". After hearing that  , i have no choice to accept part of the money you given me .

Writing till this far , this will be my conclusion for the day . As the clock tickes itself , i felt "why the clock must continue to tick rather than freeze itself for that day and let that moment stays." I have fun throughout the day that's for sure , but as for you i didn't know as you don't really open up to other people your feeling isn't it? And that basically sum up "Our First Date".